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Common
Mistakes During Ramadhan
Bismillah
Wasalaatu wasalaam A'la Rasoolillah. Ama Ba'ad
The list
was taken from Sheikh Ahmad's Fiqh of Ramadhan class.
Common Mistakes During Ramadhan:
1) Focusing
on food; to the extent that people begin to worry about eating more then
actually fasting. This also goes along with spending tons of money on
Iftaars even though a person does not need to eat that much food.
2) Making
Suhr way before Fajr. Some people eat Suhr a few hours after Taraweeh
or Isha Salah, this is wrong. It should be eaten closer to the time of
Fajr.
3) People
don't make Niyyah (intentions) to fast for Ramadhan. This is something
in the heart and does not need to be verbal. Also it only needs to be
done once, at the beginning of Ramadhan and not every single day.
4) If you
find out late that Ramadhan started, you should stop eating and fast for
that day, making that day up after Ramadhan/Eid ends.
5) Many people
don't think you pray Taraweeh on the first night of Ramadhan (such as
tonight). They believe you pray it after the first day you actually fast.
They forget that the Islamic calender runs on the moon, maghrib is the
start of the new day.
6) Many people
believe if you eat or drink on accident this breaks your fast. This is
false, if you do this on accident then you continue fasting and do not
need to make up the day.
7) Some people
take the opinion that if they see someone eating or drinking they should
not remind the person that he/she is fasting. According to Sheikh Bin
Baz (ra), this is incorrect and it is an order from Allah for us to ordain
the good and forbid the evil. Thus we tell the person, because we are
forbidding the evil this way.
8) Many sisters
believe they cannot use Hennah while fasting. This is incorrect, they
are allowed to use it during Ramadhan.
9) Some people
believe when you are cooking you cannot taste the food to see if it has
the right spices/flavors. This is false, and allowed in Islam as long
as the person cooking is not eating the food. Rather they can taste it
to see if it needs salt, or more spices.
10) Many
people think you cannot use a Miswak or toothbrush during Ramadhan. This
is false, for the Prophet(saw) used to use a miswak during Ramadhan. Also
you CAN use toothpaste; the reasoning by the scholars is that the Miswak
has flavor, thus toothpaste is okay to use (if you are not eating it).
11) Some
people make the Fajr Adhan early. They do this so people will stop eating
before Fajr and not invalidate their fast. This is wrong and something
we should not do.
12) Some
people make the Maghrib Adhan late. They do this so people will start
eating late, just incase Maghrib has not come in yet. Thsi too is wrong
and we should not do this.
13) Many
many people believe you cannot have intercourse with your spouse during
the whole month of Ramadhan. This is false, you cannot do this only during
the times when you are fasting. Between Maghrib and Fajr it is permissable
to do.
14) Many
women believe that if their period has just ended and they did not make
ghusl, they cannot fast that day (considering their period ended at night,
and they went to bed without Ghusl, waking up without having a chance
to make it). This is incorrect, if a women has not made Ghusl she can
still fast.
15) Many
men believe that if he has had intercourse with his wife and did not make
ghusl (similar to the above) then he cannot fast the next morning. This
is also incorrect, for he can fast even if he has not made Ghusl.
16) Some
people pray Dhur and Asr prayers together during Ramadhan. (mainly in
Arab countries) This is incorrect and should be avoided.
17) Some
people believe you cannot eat until the Muadthin is done calling the Maghrib
Adthan. This is incorrect, as soon as he starts a person can break their
fast.
18) Many
people don't take advantage of making dua before they break their fast.
This is one of the three times when Allah accepts a person dua.
19) Many
people make the mistake of spending the later part of Ramadhan prepairing
for Eid, neglecting Ramadhan. This is incorrect and these people lose
the concept of what Ramadhan is about.
20) Many
parents do not let their children fast during Ramadhan (young children).
This is somehting counter productive to a child. By allowing him to fast
he will grow up to know he must do this act.
21) Many
people think Ramadhan is just about not eating and forget about controling
their tempers and watching what they say. In actuality we are supposed
to control our tempers and mouthes even more during Ramadhan.
22) People
often waste their time during Ramadhan. They go to sleep during the day
and get nothing done. We should be taking advantage of this blessed month
by doing extra Ibaadat.
23) Some
people don't go on trips or travel during Ramadhan. They think they have
to break their fast when traveling. This is actually optional, if you
want to break your fast while traveling you can (with making it up later),
and if you don't you can continue fasting.
24) Many
people who are able don't make Itikaaf at the masjid. We should take advantage
of our good health and spend lots of time at the Masjid, expecially the
last 10 days of Ramadhan.
25) Some
people believe they cannot cut their hair or nails during Ramadhan. This
is also false.
26) Some
people say you cannot swallow your spit during Ramadhan. This too is false.
However you cannot swallor mucus that has entered your mouth.
27) Some
people say you cannot use scented oils or perfumes during Ramadhan. This
too is false.
28) Some
people believe bleeding breaks the fast. This is not true.
29) Some
people believe if you throw up on accident it breaks your fast. This is
not true, however if you do it intentionally it does.
30) Some
people think you cannot put water in your nose and mouth during wuduh
in Ramadhan. This too is incorrect.
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